The Double Life Of Media Mogul Barry Diller Now Finally Exposed

Media mogul and Fox Broadcasting co-founder Barry Diller has opened up for the primary time about his attraction to males and the complexities of his long-standing relationship with iconic dressmaker Diane von Fürstenberg.

In a heartfelt excerpt from his new memoir “Who Knew,” Diller opened up about his sexuality, detailing the internal conflicts he wrestled with for years and the way they intertwined together with his love for von Fürstenberg.

Diller is famend for his affect in media and leisure.

Nevertheless, behind his unbelievable success, he has now revealed he spent most of his life hiding a secret: his attraction to males.

“I’ve by no means questioned my sexuality’s primary authority over my life (I used to be solely afraid of the response of others),” he confessed in “Who Knew,” excerpted by New York Magazine. “And when my romance with Diane started, I by no means questioned that its organic crucial was as sturdy in its heterosexuality as its reverse had been. When it occurred, my preliminary response was, ‘Who knew?’”

Within the memoir, Diller recounted his earliest experiences with males, beginning as an adolescent in West Hollywood.

“I had discovered methods to search out males — beginning with my teenage years avenue cruising in West Hollywood, darting out and in of facet doorways of bars alongside Melrose Avenue,” he wrote.

Whilst his profession soared, worry of being uncovered saved him emotionally remoted.

He shared, “I had a lot early profession success you might need thought I’d conquered what I noticed as the most important hazard in my growing life. I’d conquered different phobias, however worry of publicity nonetheless had a tyrannical maintain on me.”

Regardless of the interior battle, Diller’s love for von Fürstenberg was plain.

The couple, who married in 2001 after many years of romance, first linked within the early Nineteen Seventies.

“I didn’t simply need her, I wanted her,” he wrote. “And that banged exhausting into my built-up self-protections.”

Although he was emotionally unprepared for intimacy, their connection flourished.

“I’ve lived for many years studying about Diane and me: about us being greatest associates fairly than lovers. We weren’t simply associates. We aren’t simply associates. Plain and easy, it was an explosion of ardour that saved up for years.”

Diller was open concerning the duality of his emotions: “And, sure, I additionally preferred guys, however that was not a battle with my love for Diane.”

For many years, Diller lived by a self-imposed code of silence. As a substitute of brazenly popping out, he developed a set of non-public guidelines designed to handle appearances whereas staying true to himself.

“I might reside with silence, however not with hypocrisy,” one in every of his guidelines acknowledged. One other declared, “I might by no means convey a person as a date to a heterosexual occasion — not that there have been many guys I used to be critical sufficient about to convey — however I’d by no means convey a lady as a ‘beard,’ both.”

Trying again, he calls these boundaries what they have been, noting, “I acknowledge it now as the other of braveness.”

Despite the fact that he finally realized that “everybody is aware of,” he remained unwilling to label his sexuality publicly.

“Compartmentalizing these undesirable emotions turned so profitable that it has each dominated and riled my life ever since,” he shared.

When it got here to his high-profile relationship with von Fürstenberg, Barry Diller let the world draw its personal conclusions.

“I hid my relationship with Diane from the general public at first as a result of I couldn’t outline it for them,” he defined.

Von Fürstenberg, a style powerhouse who revolutionized ladies’s wardrobes together with her wrap costume, turned a logo of female power and independence. Therefore, as her fame rose, their connection turned tougher to cover.

But, for Diller, the character of their bond didn’t want clarification.

“Although I admit I used to be at all times all in favour of males, it was by no means in battle with my love for Diane,” he mentioned.